ERIC Identifier: ED281610
Publication Date: 1987-00-00
Author: Oden, Sherri
Source: ERIC Clearinghouse on
Elementary and Early Childhood Education Urbana IL.
The Development of Social Competence in Children.
Researchers have tried to pinpoint the origins of positive social
adjustment in relation to genetic, familial, educational, and other factors.
This digest reviews research on the development of social competence in infants
and children, emphasizing the developmental processes which take place in the
family, peer groups, preschool, and elementary school. Also discussed are
difficulties in social development.
INFANTS AS SOCIAL BEINGS
Breakthroughs in methodology for assessing infants' perceptual abilities have
shown that even newborns are quite perceptive, active, and responsive during
physical and social interaction. The newborn infant will imitate people, stick
out its tongue, flutter its eyelashes, and open and close its mouth in response
to similar actions from an adult or older child. Through crying and other
distress sounds, the infant signals physical needs for food, warmth, safety,
touch, and comfort.
Infants' physical requirements are best met when delivered along with social
contact and interaction. Babies who lack human interaction may "fail to thrive."
Such infants will fail to gain sufficient weight and will become indifferent,
listless, withdrawn and/or depressed, and in some cases will not survive
(Clarke-Stewart and Koch, 1983).
Increasingly, an infant will engage in social exchanges by a "reciprocal
matching" process in which both the infant and adult attempt to match or copy
each other by approximation of each other's gaze, use of tongue, sounds, and
smiles. Bruner (1978) and others have proposed that these social interaction
processes, which continually undergo development, also constitute a "fine
tuning" system for the child's language and cognitive development.
FAMILY ATTACHMENT SYSTEMS
It is important for infants to maintain close relationships with one or more
adults. Typically, one adult is the mother, but others may be fathers, older
siblings, or family friends. The smiling and laughing of an infant become
responses to different types of social stimulation and objects provided by
specific persons (Goldbert, 1982). A growing bonding attachment, marked by
strong mutual affect, with at least one particular adult, is critical to the
child's welfare and social-emotional development.
Attachment, evident within six to nine months, becomes obvious when the
infant shows distress as the mother (or other attachment figure) departs from a
setting. Infants and toddlers who are "securely attached" are affectionate and
tend not to cling to their mothers, but to explore the surrounding physical and
social environment from this "secure base," showing interest in others and
sharing their explorations with the mother by pointing and bringing objects of
The socialization of the child is facilitated not only by the parents, but
also within the family context, which may include relatives and friends who
support the parents and children, and further reinforce cultural values. Studies
by Baumrind (1973) and others have demonstrated that, as children develop,
parents use different methods of control or leadership styles in family
management that fall into fairly predictable categories:
--authoritarian (high control) --authoritative (authority through having
knowledge and providing direction) --permissive (low control or direction)
--combinations of the above
Some cultural groups tend to prefer one or the other of these styles, each of
which encourages and controls different patterns of behavior in children.
Mothers who are more verbal in their influence on children's actions have been
found to use "benign" instructive direction that appears to result in the child
having greater social competence at home, with peers, and in school settings.
As a toddler, the child moves in peer contexts which provide opportunities
for learning to sustain interaction and develop understanding of others. Piaget
(l932) pointed to peer interaction as one major source of cognitive as well as
social development, particularly for the development of role-taking and empathy.
In the contexts of school, neighborhood, and home, children learn to
discriminate among different types of peer relationships--best friends, social
friends, activity partners, acquaintances, and strangers (Oden, l987). Through
building and sustaining different types of peer relationships and social
experiences, especially peer conflict, children acquire knowledge of the self
versus other and a range of social interaction skills. Mixed-age peer
interaction also contributes to the social-cognitive and language development of
the younger child while enhancing the instructive abilities of the older child
Children's social-cognitive development, including moral judgment, appears to
parallel cognitive development as children's perceptions of relationships,
peers, and social situations become more abstract and less egocentric.
Preschoolers are less able to differentiate between best friends and friends
than are elementary school-age children. But young children can provide specific
reasons why they do not like to interact with certain peers. From six to 14
years of age, children shift their views of friendship relationships from
sharing of physical activities to sharing of materials, being kind or helpful,
and, eventually, perceiving friendships that allow individuality to be expressed
or supported (Berndt, 1981.)
LIMITING FACTORS IN SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT
A child's connection with a given family, neighborhood, center, or school may
limit opportunities for social development. Mixed age, sex, racial, or cultural
peer interactions may be infrequent and highly bound by activity differences and
early learned expectations, thereby limiting the extent of diversity in peer
interaction. This lack of diversity limits the child's ability to be socially
competent in various circumstances (Ramsey, 1986).
Formally structured educational situations, built around teacher-group
interaction, tend to result in fewer peer interactions than less formal
settings. Fewer socially isolated children are found in informal classrooms
where activities are built around projects in which peers can establish skills
for collaboration and activity partnership (Hallinan, 1981).
The long term benefits of positive peer interactions and relationships have
been shown in a number of studies (Oden, 1986). Greater social adjustment in
high school and adulthood has been observed for people who at 9 or 10 years of
age were judged to be modestly to well accepted by peers. Poor peer acceptance
results in fewer peer experiences, few of which are positive, thus creating a
vicious cycle of peer rejection.
Various instructional approaches and experiences related to social skills
development have proved effective in increasing children's social competence.
Coaching, modeling, reinforcement, and peer pairing are methods based on the
same learning processes evident in early adult-child relations. With these
methods, social-cognitive and behavioral skills can be developed which can
provide poorly accepted peers with the ability to break the cycle of peer
rejection. Children appear to learn how to more competently assess peer norms,
values, and expectations and to select actions that may bring them within the
"threshold of peer acceptance" (Oden, 1987).
Societal factors also affect children's social development. Stressed families
and those with little time for interaction with children have become a focus of
research as divorce rates have risen. Poverty conditions undermine opportunities
for children's positive development. Further investigation is needed on the
linkage between child development and social factors.
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